Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Tantra and NVC (Nonviolent Communication)

Quite a few Tantrikas are embracing NVC or Nonviolent Communication.

Based on the original work of Marshall Rosenberg, NVC is sometimes referred to as Compassionate Communication.

The basic model involves two modes, each consisting of four steps. One mode is Empathic Listening which requires listening for observations, feelings, needs and requests. The other, often parallel mode involves the Honest Expression of observations, feelings, needs and requests.

One reason Tantrikas are drawn to NVC is because Tantra involves much more than sexual harmony and extends further to harmony in all levels of relationship. Because Compassionate Communication reduces the number of squabbles and tends to move those who use it to more rapid resolutions, it is seen as an essential part of harmony in relationships.

The basic methodology of NVC is taught in courses offered by: